6 Then he said to the woman,
“I will sharpen the pain of your pregnancy,
and in pain, you will give birth.
And you will desire to control your husband,
but he will rule over you.[c]”
Genesis 3:6
 
God was particular and highly intentional about how he structured the family. Allow your husband to lead. Yield to him because you honor God. He's going to get it wrong sometimes and sometimes you will even see how his idea may fail ahead of time. We are called to have a gentle and quiet spirit, so meet him with that.
 
Meeting our husbands with a gentle and quiet spirit may begin with taking a deep breath and seeing it the way he sees it. Even when we may see a better way let's lead with grace and compassion and then prayer.